For the immature brethren(especially ladies)

Some ladies put themselves into avoidable problems with
men. You should know that an average man that is not God;
focused and God; oriented thinks of a lady only in sexual
terms. Here are some guidelines that will help you in relating
with men so they do not take advantage of you.
1. Don’t dress provocatively; otherwise men will come after
you for a feel of your body!
2. Be courteous in relating with them, not trying to be sexy.
Don’t hug them, shake their hands for a long time or carelessly
rest on them or hold them absentmindedly.
3. Don’t visit a man alone in his room or house simply for a
pleasure visit. Whatever happens to you there, you asked for it.
4. Avoid taking free ride in a man’s car, especially when it
becomes a frequent thing.
5. Be quick to pick sexual signals, unwholesome comments
and illicit interests. Move away immediately
6. Be careful about following a man anywhere on request with
no full idea of what will happen there. Even if the
circumstances demand that you have to go with such a man ,
be very careful and take extra precautions if you can’t avoid
going
7. Don’t carelessly slip into an undefined relationship with the
opposite sex in school, at work , In the neighbourhood; in
church or even if it’s a family friend.
8. Don’t follow your feelings for a man; guard your emotions.
Instead follow your spirit.
9. Don’t become crazy or become a toy for a man because
you can’t control your emotions; a man knows when you have
fallen for him emotionally and a godless one will only abuse,
use, cheat and rob you.
10. Don’t let go sacred emotional treasures reserved for
marital relationship; it will ensnare you.
11. Disallow illegal touching of your sexual parts by a man.
These include your breasts, waist, buttocks, and parts of you
that arouse you. If you do, you will get stirred up sexually and
continue to look for a man to do that to you, not minding the
consequences or you will resort to masturbation. Beware!
Protect that for your husband.
12. Avoid having sexual discussions with a man. You may set
into motion a process that cannot be reversed. If you need to
talk about your ugly past, there are enough women of God or
mothers-in-Israel that have anointed shoulders that you can
run to and lean on.
13. Don’t create a situation of rape for yourself by walking
alone at night especially in strange and deserted places.
Follow your spirit, use your faith and don’t hesitate to scream
for help. Don’t wear clothes that will make it easy for you to
be stripped. In a strange place, stay close to the exit and be
ready to excuse yourself in case of any harassment.
14. Don’t walk around the neighbourhood in scanty clothes.
Never give an opportunity for any man to see you in a sexual
light, except your husband of course!
15. Learn to sit properly in public. Put your thighs together and
avoid short skirts that show your inner thigh when you are
seated.
16. Don’t be nice to anyone giving you sexual signal; he will
only abuse you. Be firm and unemotional; say NO and let him
know you mean NO. Don’t give an impression that you mean
YES while saying NO.
17. Never give your phone number or contact to a stranger no
matter the pressure.
Culled from “Godly counsels for single ladies on sexual
matters”